able (adjective)

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having the power, skill, knowledge, means, or opportunity to do something.

Named as a play on founder Merraf Abel’s last name, Abel Minds is a virtual therapy and mediation practice, rooted in client-centered care and cultural insight.

All mental health therapy services are offered exclusively via telehealth. With experience in virtual therapy since 2017, Merraf brings deep clinical expertise and compassionate connection to every session. All teletherapy sessions are offered on a secure, HIPAA-compliant platform that makes therapy accessible, flexible, and effective.

Therapy services are available to individuals located in California and Washington, D.C.

Merraf also speaks nationally and internationally on mental health, leadership, and identity, combining therapeutic insight with powerful storytelling to spark personal and organizational growth.

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the founder

Merraf Abel

Hi, I’m Merraf Abel—a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, speaker, and founder of Abel Minds, a therapy and mediation practice dedicated to helping individuals heal, lead, and thrive.

I’m licensed in the state of California (LMFT #80515) and Washington, DC (LMFT200001184). I provide counseling services for clients located in California and Washington, D.C.

At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to helping people navigate the complexities of self-doubt, anxiety, depression, identity, and leadership. I specialize in supporting high-achieving adults, second-generation immigrants, young professionals, and emerging leaders who are ready to move beyond burnout, imposter syndrome, and cultural pressure—and into a space of healing, clarity, and confidence.

I was born and raised in Washington, D.C. to Ethiopian-born parents, and my cultural roots deeply inform my therapeutic lens. I earned my Bachelor of Science from Cornell University, followed by a Master of Public Health (MPH) in Health Promotion and Education and a Master of Science in Marital and Family Therapy (MFT) from Loma Linda University in California.

My clinical experience spans community mental health, crisis response, and clinical supervision. In addition to clinical work, I’m a passionate speaker and educator. I speak at corporate events, workshops, and webinars on the mental and emotional realities many professionals face—topics like burnout, imposter syndrome, workplace anxiety, cultural identity, self-doubt in leadership, and team unity. Whether on stage or in session, I aim to spark honest conversations and sustainable change.

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I believe therapy is a collaborative effort between the client and the therapist.

I believe therapy is a collaborative process. While I bring training and clinical tools, I approach every client with humility and curiosity—recognizing that you are the expert on your own life. My goal is to offer a safe, culturally sensitive space where you feel heard, seen, and supported.

I use an integrative approach, drawing from Solution-Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and mindfulness techniques to help clients process emotions, challenge unhelpful thought patterns, and build practical skills for lasting growth.

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FUN FACTS about Merraf

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Mindfulness. Mimosa-Lover. Music- Lover

I believe wine tasting is a form of mindfulness... especially at sunset. Brunch is basically my weekend ritual. My playlists have everything from soul-soothing to reggae to jazz.

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Candid

I keep it real in therapy, in life, and especially in the group chat.

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Wanderer

Traveling feeds my soul—bonus points if there's a coastline and a good brunch spot.

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